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Pria berkulit putih diduga pelaku pembunuh kekasih di kosan Jalan Pos Utara No.3D RT 04/1 Kelurahan Pasar Baru, Sawah Besar, Jakarta Pusat, masih diburu polisi.

Pria berkulit putih diduga pelaku pembunuh kekasih di kosan Jalan Pos Utara No.3D RT 04/1 Kelurahan Pasar Baru, Sawah Besar, Jakarta Pusat, masih diburu polisi.

“Kami juga masih mengalami kesulitan karena jenazah belum dapat dikenali,” ujar Kasat Reskrim Polres Jakpus AKBP Tatan Dirsan Atmaja.

Hingga saat itu, petugas gabungan dari Polsek Sawah Besar dan Polres Jakpus, juga masih menguber pelaku yang disenyalir masih berada di Jakarta.

Dari keterangan 6 saksi, pelaku diperkirakan orang Sumatera.

Wanita berusia sekitar 20 tahun, dengan tato bertulis ‘Shelly’ dipundak ditemukan penjaga kos Nurkholis, sudah mulai membusuk dengan luka jeratan tali tas terlentang di balik pintu kamar.

Oleh petugas Polsek Sawah Besar, jenazah wanita berambut panjang itu dikirim ke RSCM.

Selain ciri-ciri diatas, korban saat ditemui dengan mengenakan kutek hijau di jari kaki, memakai celana pendek ketat dan baju kaos putih motif manik-manik, bertulis Made in England. Kini jenazah wanita malang itu masih berada di kamar pendingin rumah sakit.

Kapolsek Sawah Besar Kompol Shinto Silitonga, juga telah membenarkan kalau jenazah sudah diotopsi Rabu (12/3) malam.”Otopsi sengaja dipercepat tanpa menunggu persetujuan orangtua, ini dikarenakan guna untuk kepetingan penyidikan apakah korban diperkosa, tapi hasil visum wanita itu tidak ada tanda pemerkosaan,” tegas petugas di Mapolsek Sawah Besar.

Karena korban belum dikenali, petugas sedikit mengalami kesulitan untuk dapat mengejar pelaku namun dari para saksi polisi terus menguber kekasihnya yang melakukan pembunuhan.

“Kami yakin pelaku akan bisa tertangkap, mudah-mudah dalam waktu singkat pria berhidung mancung dan bermata agak sipit bisa tertangkap,”ujar salah satu petugas.

Hingga saat ini ke enam saksi itu telah dimintai keterangan secara intensip, dan saksi juga menuturkan kalau pria kekasih wanita itu kadang ngomongnya seperti logat Palembang dan Lampung. Kini puluhan sanggota serse telah menyebar menguber pelaku yang diperkirakan masih berada di kawasan Jakarta

saco-indonesia.com, I heard that youíre settled down That you found a girl and youíre married now I heard that your dreams came true Guess she gave you things I didnít give to you

saco-indonesia.com,

I heard that you’re settled down
That you found a girl and you’re married now
I heard that your dreams came true
Guess she gave you things I didn’t give to you

Old friend, why are you so shy?
It ain’t like you to hold back or hide from the lie

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn’t stay away, I couldn’t fight it
I hoped you’d see my face & that you’d be reminded
That for me, it isn’t over

Nevermind, I’ll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don’t forget me, I beg, I remember you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead"
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, yeah

You’d know how the time flies
Only yesterday was the time of our lives
We were born and raised in a summery haze
Bound by the surprise of our glory days

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn’t stay away, I couldn’t fight it
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I hoped you’d see my face & that you’d be reminded
That for me, it isn’t over yet

Nevermind, I’ll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don’t forget me, I beg, I remember you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead", yay

Nothing compares, no worries or cares
Regret’s and mistakes they’re memories made
Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

Nevermind, I’ll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don’t forget me, I beg, I remembered you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead"

Nevermind, I’ll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don’t forget me, I beg, I remembered you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead"
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, yeah

Editor : dian sukmawati

Even as a high school student, Dave Goldberg was urging female classmates to speak up. As a young dot-com executive, he had one girlfriend after another, but fell hard for a driven friend named Sheryl Sandberg, pining after her for years. After they wed, Mr. Goldberg pushed her to negotiate hard for high compensation and arranged his schedule so that he could be home with their children when she was traveling for work.

Mr. Goldberg, who died unexpectedly on Friday, was a genial, 47-year-old Silicon Valley entrepreneur who built his latest company, SurveyMonkey, from a modest enterprise to one recently valued by investors at $2 billion. But he was also perhaps the signature male feminist of his era: the first major chief executive in memory to spur his wife to become as successful in business as he was, and an essential figure in “Lean In,” Ms. Sandberg’s blockbuster guide to female achievement.

Over the weekend, even strangers were shocked at his death, both because of his relatively young age and because they knew of him as the living, breathing, car-pooling center of a new philosophy of two-career marriage.

“They were very much the role models for what this next generation wants to grapple with,” said Debora L. Spar, the president of Barnard College. In a 2011 commencement speech there, Ms. Sandberg told the graduates that whom they married would be their most important career decision.

In the play “The Heidi Chronicles,” revived on Broadway this spring, a male character who is the founder of a media company says that “I don’t want to come home to an A-plus,” explaining that his ambitions require him to marry an unthreatening helpmeet. Mr. Goldberg grew up to hold the opposite view, starting with his upbringing in progressive Minneapolis circles where “there was woman power in every aspect of our lives,” Jeffrey Dachis, a childhood friend, said in an interview.

The Goldberg parents read “The Feminine Mystique” together — in fact, Mr. Goldberg’s father introduced it to his wife, according to Ms. Sandberg’s book. In 1976, Paula Goldberg helped found a nonprofit to aid children with disabilities. Her husband, Mel, a law professor who taught at night, made the family breakfast at home.

Later, when Dave Goldberg was in high school and his prom date, Jill Chessen, stayed silent in a politics class, he chastised her afterward. He said, “You need to speak up,” Ms. Chessen recalled in an interview. “They need to hear your voice.”

Years later, when Karin Gilford, an early employee at Launch Media, Mr. Goldberg’s digital music company, became a mother, he knew exactly what to do. He kept giving her challenging assignments, she recalled, but also let her work from home one day a week. After Yahoo acquired Launch, Mr. Goldberg became known for distributing roses to all the women in the office on Valentine’s Day.

Ms. Sandberg, who often describes herself as bossy-in-a-good-way, enchanted him when they became friendly in the mid-1990s. He “was smitten with her,” Ms. Chessen remembered. Ms. Sandberg was dating someone else, but Mr. Goldberg still hung around, even helping her and her then-boyfriend move, recalled Bob Roback, a friend and co-founder of Launch. When they finally married in 2004, friends remember thinking how similar the two were, and that the qualities that might have made Ms. Sandberg intimidating to some men drew Mr. Goldberg to her even more.

Over the next decade, Mr. Goldberg and Ms. Sandberg pioneered new ways of capturing information online, had a son and then a daughter, became immensely wealthy, and hashed out their who-does-what-in-this-marriage issues. Mr. Goldberg’s commute from the Bay Area to Los Angeles became a strain, so he relocated, later joking that he “lost the coin flip” of where they would live. He paid the bills, she planned the birthday parties, and both often left their offices at 5:30 so they could eat dinner with their children before resuming work afterward.

Friends in Silicon Valley say they were careful to conduct their careers separately, politely refusing when outsiders would ask one about the other’s work: Ms. Sandberg’s role building Facebook into an information and advertising powerhouse, and Mr. Goldberg at SurveyMonkey, which made polling faster and cheaper. But privately, their work was intertwined. He often began statements to his team with the phrase “Well, Sheryl said” sharing her business advice. He counseled her, too, starting with her salary negotiations with Mark Zuckerberg.

“I wanted Mark to really feel he stretched to get Sheryl, because she was worth it,” Mr. Goldberg explained in a 2013 “60 Minutes” interview, his Minnesota accent and his smile intact as he offered a rare peek of the intersection of marriage and money at the top of corporate life.

 

 

While his wife grew increasingly outspoken about women’s advancement, Mr. Goldberg quietly advised the men in the office on family and partnership matters, an associate said. Six out of 16 members of SurveyMonkey’s management team are female, an almost unheard-of ratio among Silicon Valley “unicorns,” or companies valued at over $1 billion.

When Mellody Hobson, a friend and finance executive, wrote a chapter of “Lean In” about women of color for the college edition of the book, Mr. Goldberg gave her feedback on the draft, a clue to his deep involvement. He joked with Ms. Hobson that she was too long-winded, like Ms. Sandberg, but aside from that, he said he loved the chapter, she said in an interview.

By then, Mr. Goldberg was a figure of fascination who inspired a “where can I get one of those?” reaction among many of the women who had read the best seller “Lean In.” Some lamented that Ms. Sandberg’s advice hinged too much on marrying a Dave Goldberg, who was humble enough to plan around his wife, attentive enough to worry about which shoes his young daughter would wear, and rich enough to help pay for the help that made the family’s balancing act manageable.

Now that he is gone, and Ms. Sandberg goes from being half of a celebrated partnership to perhaps the business world’s most prominent single mother, the pages of “Lean In” carry a new sting of loss.

“We are never at 50-50 at any given moment — perfect equality is hard to define or sustain — but we allow the pendulum to swing back and forth between us,” she wrote in 2013, adding that they were looking forward to raising teenagers together.

“Fortunately, I have Dave to figure it out with me,” she wrote.

Mr. Pfaff was an international affairs columnist and author who found Washington’s intervention in world affairs often misguided.

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